tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post7084251143614926580..comments2023-09-06T17:03:18.102+08:00Comments on .life is a mess but we move on.: hatred and racism. who is at fault?.theweirdo.http://www.blogger.com/profile/14698827502728073919noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-5283105637161552592015-06-09T17:47:14.872+08:002015-06-09T17:47:14.872+08:00i think this kind of situation happened subconscio...i think this kind of situation happened subconsciously la. happened all the time among my friends and family. we may not have the intention to hate or being racist, but sometimes we just do not know how to react or respond towards such thing. i strongly feel my friend was actually clueless of what damage has she done to her kid. and i don't think she realizes that way was wrong huhuhu. silap aku jugak sebab i didn't say anything huhu.<br /><br />and sometimes, we don't even realize that we are actually being racist. aku la contohnya. kadang aku suka buat gaya cina pelat just to entertain myself. bad bad bad. should have changed myself..theweirdo.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14698827502728073919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-20993500713646811962015-06-09T17:42:39.865+08:002015-06-09T17:42:39.865+08:00hahahaha i cant imagine their face bila dengar kau...hahahaha i cant imagine their face bila dengar kau jawab macam tu. sambil jawab, sambil tolak-tolak tetek naik atas sikit with a proud face hahahaha. .theweirdo.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14698827502728073919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-1750719274708209712015-05-30T08:50:27.040+08:002015-05-30T08:50:27.040+08:00Yep. I've received similar comments just becau...Yep. I've received similar comments just because my husband is from a different race and religion. <br /><br />Some even went to the extreme and kutuk "pompuan gemuk dan itam mcm kau pun dapat mat saleh" <br /><br />Uh. <br /><br />Aku selalu retort "Bukan lah...tetek powerful, sebab tu boleh dapat mat saleh"<br /><br />Bongok. Aliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18312631580567473208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-70385065739804605352015-05-30T08:47:09.688+08:002015-05-30T08:47:09.688+08:00So true. Orang Melayu ni selalu claim yg bangsa la...So true. Orang Melayu ni selalu claim yg bangsa lain tu racist. Padahal diorg tak tau ke, yg Melayu tu sendiri pun racist?? Kita marah bila bangsa lain kutuk kita, tapi at the same time, we call them "keling" "cinapek" "nigger" etc in our everyday conversations. Tak tau ke these are derogatory terms?? <br /><br />I don't agree with how your colleague taught her child. We SHOULD NEVER teach our children to hate other peoples faith/race. We need to teach them respect, not hate! This is why our country is going backwards....cause parents just keep on spreading their hatred onto their children. And their children will spread the same hatred onto their children...it's a vicious cycle!!<br />Aliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18312631580567473208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-2463502639929645482015-05-08T11:50:10.252+08:002015-05-08T11:50:10.252+08:00hahahaha ayat last tu memang krik krikkk sangat. w...hahahaha ayat last tu memang krik krikkk sangat. what makes a man is not the race, but the manners. kalau mentaliti macam tu, aku pun tak hingin nak buat laki hahahaha.<br /><br />and btw, bukan lelaki melayu ke yang dok mendambakan wanita berkulit putih mulus, mata biru kelabu ceklat kengkonon cantik sangat (hakikatnya semua gadis galak beli contact lense warna warni)? yang kulit kaler ceklat kusam ni idokla dipandangnyerrrrr padahal melayu majoriti kulit tak putih sangat hahahaha. cakap tak serupa bikin eh emo plak haha..theweirdo.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14698827502728073919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-37098485477282073302015-05-08T11:46:01.580+08:002015-05-08T11:46:01.580+08:00i just don't get it - if they cannot get along...i just don't get it - if they cannot get along with other races/religions, why they think we must not get along well with them too?<br /><br />i just wish parents can be more tactful when handling this matter, because as much as it is sensitive to us muslims/malay, so to them. sometimes it's parents who subconsciously turn their children into racist grown ups, though of course not their intention in the first place..theweirdo.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14698827502728073919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-44739341650657659832015-05-07T10:10:11.117+08:002015-05-07T10:10:11.117+08:00not to mention when it comes to interracial couple...not to mention when it comes to interracial couples. Mr.K is not Malay, dan gua selalu terima komen-komen negatif daripada yang Melayu kita ni (especially lelaki)..<br /><br />"Dah habis ke lelaki Melayu kat Malaysia ni?"<br />"Rugi sorang anak Melayu lepas kat orang bukan Melayu."<br />"K%$# tak sunat jugak yang hang nak."<br /><br />..itu baru pasal bangsa. belum kira bab agama lagi depa basuh gua.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-913166844915612691.post-39330025514430031162015-04-30T11:22:13.262+08:002015-04-30T11:22:13.262+08:00yes, people likes to use the easy way out when the...yes, people likes to use the easy way out when they should be explaining. when i was in college, i had a chinese roommate. we sometimes went jogging together. and we usually received the cold stare from some people. like what is this malay and chinese girl doing together? like race is a disease that we need to avoid when actually friendship had no race or color. funky_Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02652348794677651887noreply@blogger.com